The Benefactions Of Discovering A Wedding Magician

By Andrew Edmonds

Weddings are magical events and sometimes it takes someone with special powers to make it come to life. A wedding magician is a person who provides support and assistance in a variety of ways to ensure the vision becomes a reality for the young couple. In the excitement of the moment many engaged couples lack the understanding of exactly how much work is involved in planning a wedding, but discover it all too soon. Selection of the ceremony and reception sites, choosing from the thousands of invitations available, determining colors, and many other things go into a wedding and can cause much stress if sufficient support is not available or requested.

Those helping to plan the wedding can come from family, friends, or the professional community all of whom may have varied experiences and ideas when it comes to the big day. For many brides, after beginning the planning process and collecting essential elements, they realize how overwhelming the task is, but they can rest assured that there are many people waiting in the wings to be asked to join in pulling the wedding together. For those opting to utilize the services of a professional wedding planner, the sooner they are selected the better as they often need time to contact their vendors and put together a plan that will ensure the vision becomes a reality.

Planning a wedding is almost the opposite to learning a new job after being hired. In a job a person is not expected to know exactly what they are to do the day they walk in, but instead will undergo extensive training until feeling competent to complete tasks on their own. When planning a wedding, however, brides are often expected to be experts immediately and every wrong decision can cost money. Therefore, selecting vendors, scheduling events, gathering everyone on time, getting everything out on time, and setting up on time can all be more than they can manage.

It is common for the bride-to-be to ask her mother or a close relative to assist her in choosing her wedding gown. The color theme for the wedding is sometimes agreed on with the groom, but usually this is the bride's job. The bridesmaids usually accompany the bride in trying on different styles for their dresses with the bride choosing the color. For those who serve in the role of wedding magician, or wedding planner, this selection helps set the theme for the wedding and determines many other elements of the wedding and reception.

As a couple, the bride and groom have certain responsibilities that cannot be designated to others, although suggestions are always invited. Among these are the minister, the church, and honeymoon destination. Once these decisions are made, the other elements such as the reception site, wedding cake design, and floral arrangements can be designed and ordered with the bride and groom's consent.

Wedding magicians can take many forms and many are not recognized for the contributions they make. One example is the parents who often not only provide the funding to pull off the couple's vision, but also provide support in so many other ways. Many a mother has spent the final hours before the wedding making guest favors and finishing dresses. They often are the ones that make the magic happen although they are rarely recognized as major contributors, even though their participation is appreciated.

For those who desire an outstanding wedding, but do not feel confident in making important choices alone and lack the know-how or time to get it all done by themselves, a wedding planner can work magic in achieving the countless tasks required of a wedding. The wedding planner will consult with the couple regarding any decisions or suggestions as to what they may desire. This can include, but not be limited to, the flowers, the reception food, decorations, specifics of the church ceremony, arranging for a caterer, hiring the limousine, or anything else that is needed.

Who is the Wedding Magician? It is the person or persons who assist in creating an event which will be fascinating and fabulous for all who attend. These behind the scenes people are outstanding in their own right. The excitement on the newlywed couple's faces, their happiness, and the goodwill shown by all makes the day a joyous occasion by showing the true magic of the occasion. - 31879

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